For those who have asked Matteo and I are doing well and adjusting to each other....some rough spots of course and I do feel he is a smart little guy so knows he's not where he usually is but I think it is going as well as it could be...and he is learning to trust me more and more and I am learning about him...more about that in another post but for now wanted to upload some beautiful shots of how and where we had lunch before the G&R and where Matteo and I went to celebrate being a family....there are so many rough stops in this adoption journey, that this jewel at this point, is a welcome respite...while there is still paperwork to do, and my stomach was in knots for it...the last couple of days in this beautiful place, with my little boy, as you will see from the photos, helps to make it all worthwhile...
Tuesday, November 23, 2010
Roughing it in Vungtau...
For those who have asked Matteo and I are doing well and adjusting to each other....some rough spots of course and I do feel he is a smart little guy so knows he's not where he usually is but I think it is going as well as it could be...and he is learning to trust me more and more and I am learning about him...more about that in another post but for now wanted to upload some beautiful shots of how and where we had lunch before the G&R and where Matteo and I went to celebrate being a family....there are so many rough stops in this adoption journey, that this jewel at this point, is a welcome respite...while there is still paperwork to do, and my stomach was in knots for it...the last couple of days in this beautiful place, with my little boy, as you will see from the photos, helps to make it all worthwhile...
Monday, November 22, 2010
Marie-josee
Check you yahoo account and you should find many photos and videos of your sweet little girl that were sent a couple of days ago...
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Cityscape of Vungtau
Last night when I left the orphanage, hopefully for the last time without Matteo, I took a walk and within metres of the orphanage this is what I saw.....All of the images of water are of Front beach...we will be going to back beach on Tuesday...I will upload as many photos as I can now, but there are many more to come, so do check back to this blog often...I thought I'd capture some of the life of the city so that Matteo knows where he comes from...and of course I do hope to be back often too....enjoy...
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Well a few hours ago I finally met Matteo and it went really well...he did not want to leave my arms....he is a sweety, does have a bit of a cold...but very active and I so loved being with him...am just about to head back...looks like I won't be able to take him home with me today, but maybe will try again tomorrow!!...so so wonderful..and yes I cried when I first held him...
Saturday, November 20, 2010
Sunday Morning in Vungtau
It is about eight o'clock here and I'll be heading to the orphanage soon, but had some time to write and upload a few photos....the focus on this blog will be Vungtau1 and my first meeting with Matteo....what I wanted to record was when we arrived at the orphanage, there are 3 floors, main floor has the school for the older children, the second floor (where Matteo has lived) is the floor for babies and the third floor is the floor for the older children though I also saw some younger children there as there was an older little girl on the second floor where Matteo lived....when we approached the room, I saw one of the nannies, Nang (who I have many pictures of holding Matteo) was rushing him out of the room...it took a few moments for us to realize that he had thrown up just as we got there and Nang was whisking him away to bathe him and re-dress him...
...We were told we could go into the other room and there he was naked with water being poured over him....I thought symbolically this was so wonderful to see him as he would have been born without any clothes on...as it would have been had I birthed him myself....and of course crying...Nang quickly finished washing him as I ooed and awwed....and then as she dressed him she turned and gave him to me and this is that first photo I have of him nestling into my shoulder....so grateful that Lea was there to capture the moment of our first meeting....THANKYOU LEA!!..
....anyhow I know Matteo loves being held...all of the babies do and there are lots of babies there now so the nounous' hands are full...and we have had lovely coversations so far with him cooing and talking with me, and my singing to him, and giving him rasberry kisses on his cheek and his belly...he loves that and the nounous think that is special...as they were all called to see me do it and see Matteo's reaction...His Vietnamese name is Bao and I am using that interchangeably at the orphanage, with Matteo....
...but I am learning about him and he definitely is quite an active little boy and easy to love and care for (for now)....I know he is teething as the teething ring I brought with me has been a sure hit...and he is constantly using it....he also likes books, they are in very short supply fo the babies...but I had pulled out my little vietnames phrasebook as I was trying to talk with another little boy who hangs out with the babies..and Matteo wanted to grab it...maybe to put it in his mouth but he is curious about things...then again he also tried to grab my iphone....his legs are strong...he is already able to push himself around a bit in one of those walkers...he likes to snuggle into my shoulder and also sucks his thumb when he sleeps....I have fed him a few times, with guidance from the nounous on how he is used to it...and have let him fall asleep on my shoulder before putting him down..don't think the nounous think that is wise...but for now I am giving him as much attention as I can....unless I get another surprise today, I will not be able to take complete responsibility for him until after the G&R..
....so yesterday I went to the coop mart to get some bedding for him...they have provided a crib but without bedding so needed to get that and you will see the photos below if I manage to upload them...very inexpensive to shop here...got most of what you see without the toys of course for about $35.00...saw some great outfits for boys so will have to go back...prices $1.-$3 ...very helpful at the stores...then I went to buy a stroller...will be able to use it here mostly if we're out and about...hoping to head to the beach on Friday and on the weekend...Front beach is beautiful, one resort after another...so warm here so that is where we plan to spend our last few days before heading home....for now the plan is that on Wed. and Thursday we will be in HoChiMinh (Saigon) will stay overnight...I understand Stockwell Day (president of treasury board..is presently in Vietnam in Saigon...my sister forwarded me a morning post he made ....he is here to help develop trade between Viet nam and Canada...sosome important links continue to form between both countries...but I digress....anyhow will be spending my birthday in Saigon....Loan will arrange a medical appt. for Matteo...he has a small cough that I just want to check out so that he is free to travel comfortably and then we will go to apply for his Vietnamese passport and then on Thursday for his Canadian one...and then back here Thursday night..so it will be extra special to be in Saigon for my birthday....
Alright now for some pictures...will try to post explanations by each photo if I can but sometimes get muddled with that..but most of these first photos will show the BinhAn2, 4 residences, the street scences ad you approach the orphanage etc..I can walk to the orphanage from any of the BinhAns in about 10-15 minutes...so some photos of that and some photos of the orphanage and then of Matteo's crib in Vungtau....(will upload the crib photos in my next blog..)
BinhAn 4 Residence Apartments (not sure why it uploaded upside down but....)

BinhAn 2 residence..I'm at the BinhAn1 just across from the 2..

Street view as you are approaching the orphanage...

Some of the houses on the route are like these but some are in rougher shape...

Street view with your back to the Vungtau 1 Centre's sign

Centre for the Protection of Children Front Entrance

First floor at the orphanage, just behind the wall with the plants, is the school for the older children...
...We were told we could go into the other room and there he was naked with water being poured over him....I thought symbolically this was so wonderful to see him as he would have been born without any clothes on...as it would have been had I birthed him myself....and of course crying...Nang quickly finished washing him as I ooed and awwed....and then as she dressed him she turned and gave him to me and this is that first photo I have of him nestling into my shoulder....so grateful that Lea was there to capture the moment of our first meeting....THANKYOU LEA!!..
....anyhow I know Matteo loves being held...all of the babies do and there are lots of babies there now so the nounous' hands are full...and we have had lovely coversations so far with him cooing and talking with me, and my singing to him, and giving him rasberry kisses on his cheek and his belly...he loves that and the nounous think that is special...as they were all called to see me do it and see Matteo's reaction...His Vietnamese name is Bao and I am using that interchangeably at the orphanage, with Matteo....
...but I am learning about him and he definitely is quite an active little boy and easy to love and care for (for now)....I know he is teething as the teething ring I brought with me has been a sure hit...and he is constantly using it....he also likes books, they are in very short supply fo the babies...but I had pulled out my little vietnames phrasebook as I was trying to talk with another little boy who hangs out with the babies..and Matteo wanted to grab it...maybe to put it in his mouth but he is curious about things...then again he also tried to grab my iphone....his legs are strong...he is already able to push himself around a bit in one of those walkers...he likes to snuggle into my shoulder and also sucks his thumb when he sleeps....I have fed him a few times, with guidance from the nounous on how he is used to it...and have let him fall asleep on my shoulder before putting him down..don't think the nounous think that is wise...but for now I am giving him as much attention as I can....unless I get another surprise today, I will not be able to take complete responsibility for him until after the G&R..
....so yesterday I went to the coop mart to get some bedding for him...they have provided a crib but without bedding so needed to get that and you will see the photos below if I manage to upload them...very inexpensive to shop here...got most of what you see without the toys of course for about $35.00...saw some great outfits for boys so will have to go back...prices $1.-$3 ...very helpful at the stores...then I went to buy a stroller...will be able to use it here mostly if we're out and about...hoping to head to the beach on Friday and on the weekend...Front beach is beautiful, one resort after another...so warm here so that is where we plan to spend our last few days before heading home....for now the plan is that on Wed. and Thursday we will be in HoChiMinh (Saigon) will stay overnight...I understand Stockwell Day (president of treasury board..is presently in Vietnam in Saigon...my sister forwarded me a morning post he made ....he is here to help develop trade between Viet nam and Canada...sosome important links continue to form between both countries...but I digress....anyhow will be spending my birthday in Saigon....Loan will arrange a medical appt. for Matteo...he has a small cough that I just want to check out so that he is free to travel comfortably and then we will go to apply for his Vietnamese passport and then on Thursday for his Canadian one...and then back here Thursday night..so it will be extra special to be in Saigon for my birthday....
Alright now for some pictures...will try to post explanations by each photo if I can but sometimes get muddled with that..but most of these first photos will show the BinhAn2, 4 residences, the street scences ad you approach the orphanage etc..I can walk to the orphanage from any of the BinhAns in about 10-15 minutes...so some photos of that and some photos of the orphanage and then of Matteo's crib in Vungtau....(will upload the crib photos in my next blog..)
BinhAn 4 Residence Apartments (not sure why it uploaded upside down but....)
BinhAn 2 residence..I'm at the BinhAn1 just across from the 2..
Street view as you are approaching the orphanage...
Some of the houses on the route are like these but some are in rougher shape...
Street view with your back to the Vungtau 1 Centre's sign
Centre for the Protection of Children Front Entrance
First floor at the orphanage, just behind the wall with the plants, is the school for the older children...
G&R confirmed for Monday, Nov. 22, at 2:00p.m.
Just got a surprise today, that was hinted at yesterday...our G&R has been moved up!!...so wonderful....things are moving along...am posting a photo of my first meeting with Matteo, as you can see he snuggled right into me...I think it is fine to post it now as you cannot see his face....but you can sure see the snuggle...I will write more about our first meeting soon, as I do want to record it, but am off to get a stroller...so not long before I can post some of his other photos so you can see what he looks like..!!....
Friday, November 19, 2010
New beginnings...
Well a few hours ago I finally met Matteo and it went really well...he did not want to leave my arms....he is a sweety, does have a bit of a cold...but very active and I so loved being with him...am just about to head back...looks like I won't be able to take him home with me today, but maybe will try again tomorrow!!...so so wonderful..and yes I cried when I first held him...
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