Saturday, September 13, 2014

Uncertainties….and the ever challenge of paperwork!!.

….well yesterday I found out that the home study extension was denied by the ministry and they want to wait for the home study update which hopefully will be sent this coming week. I am trying to find out what this will mean in terms of timelines and other problems. I'm not sure how long it will take the ministry to review and then hopefully approve the home study update; however, my bigger concern is will the DA wait for my paperwork to be in order?  or will this delay cause other delays there??

The original information was that once the extension is approved (it seemed that that was not going to be a problem) then the Vietnam process could continue….however, this has not happened….so the lesson here for all adoptive and waiting families,  it is important to never let your home study expire without an extension or plenty of time for a home study update to be done before the expiry date.  Not sure if anyone else has encountered this?   It is a question I had in June and regret not asking it when I thought of it?

….anyhow I am sad and yet trying to stay positive….so many mixed emotions, a down on the roller coaster of paper work once again.



4 comments:

  1. Oh no!
    Keeping positive is so hard and something I've never been very good at, but hopefully you can keep so much faith and love in your heart that there isn't much room left for worry.

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    1. Thank you Lisa, it is sometimes hard for me to feel positive too! Just so hard at times. I will try to keep both my faith and love alive.

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  2. Oh, dear! I am so sorry to hear of this news. I had no choice to let my home study expire with my medical situation and fear they will make me do it ALL over again at full cost, rather than just an update! Hang in there. You seem far more positive me and also have a lot of faith. Things like this seem so unfair and unnecessary roadblocks to an already challenging process. Please keep us posted.

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    1. Thanks Elizabeth, yes I will keep you posted. It is nice to hear you talking about your own plans for adoption again!! Keep us posted too!!

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