…baby boy!…..(I will explain the rabbits in another post) but for now, yes I have accepted the referral of a little boy born in January. He just celebrated his 5 month birthday…he is so little and so young….I have named him Malio Dinh (after my mom whose name was Amalia, male version Amalio)…one meaning of this name is 'brave'. His middle name is already Dinh which means 'peace'.
B. I did get the referral the day after your sightings of dragonflies but did need to get a medical consult as per my sw's recommendation…as this is a special needs adoption all and as much medical information available is very helpful…That hurdle has been jumped and I/we are moving forward and can say so publicly now…the downside sadly is that we might have to wait 10 -12 months for travel to go and get him…..I pray that this all works out (as somehow it seems more uncertain than with Matteo) and that Malio is able to join our family sooner rather than later!
There are many emotions but definitely this feels different than the first time, it feels calmer and more peaceful for sure and I'm hoping I'll be able to ride that wave of calmness and peace right to the G&R ceremony.
When I first told Matteo, his reaction was that he wanted a sister. I too was a bit surprised as I somehow did expect a little girl though I had not made a choice with the home study. Like with Matteo it seems there are many who want to adopt little girls so if you don't specify, chances are you'll get a boy.
For now we are beginning to share our news and are slowly adding Malio to our conversations, to our plans, and especially to our hearts. Here is a little peek…...

Congratulations!! Wonderful news :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Meg, Pat, Van and Gerad! Will find out (I hope) soon what having two boys is like!!
DeleteCongratulations from another TDH waiting family. Rumours of matches were circulating..so happy to see one confirmed. Wow your boy is young. I hope you have a short and uneventful wait.
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Thank you Joanne, and yes me too!
DeleteSo Exciting, Congratulations!! I am also a waiting single mom, ( 6 months post referral with TDH ) and while the wait to travel is loooooong it will be so worth it!! Where is your little one from in Vietnam?
ReplyDeleteThank you! he is waiting for us in Southern Vietnam…yours? girl or boy? how old? any predictions on travel timelines for you? Congratulations to you too!
DeleteMy little Girl is currently 9 months old and is also in the South in HoChiMin City. In some ways the 6 months has flown by but somedays it feels like it's taking forever! I am Hoping to travel sometime this fall if things go well.
DeleteSo excited for you both! I wish there was some way to make time fly for you! Sending you a big hug and many congratulations.
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Elizaeth
Thanks Elizabeth!! great thing about working in the education field..time always goes fast..so that's what I'm hoping!! More worried about Malio growing and staying strong and healthy!
DeleteWonderful news! Wish you and Matteo a speedy process!
ReplyDeleteThanks Sandra, I too wish it is speedy!
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